{"id":3412,"date":"2010-03-16T10:06:29","date_gmt":"2010-03-16T18:06:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gtdtimes.com\/?p=3412"},"modified":"2010-03-16T10:06:29","modified_gmt":"2010-03-16T18:06:29","slug":"new-years-disillusions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gettingthingsdone.com\/2010\/03\/new-years-disillusions\/","title":{"rendered":"New Year&#039;s Disillusions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>A Community Contribution from Mike Vardy<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/gettingthingsdone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/gtdtimes\/2010\/03\/resolutions.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3413\" title=\"New Year's Resolutions\" src=\"https:\/\/gettingthingsdone.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/gtdtimes\/2010\/03\/resolutions-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"159\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As the first quarter of 2010 passes us by, I&#8217;m going to ask it: How many of you have stuck to your &#8220;resolutions&#8221; that you made at the start of 2010?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m betting that some of you &#8211; perhaps most of you &#8211; have faltered on them in some form or another.\u00a0 It&#8217;s to be expected.\u00a0 In fact, it can be preferred.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve heard David Allen say you need to make a bunch of resolutions &#8211; essentially goals &#8211; and the real challenge is making <em>some <\/em>of them stick.\u00a0 When I first heard this, I couldn&#8217;t believe it.\u00a0 I mean &#8211; c&#8217;mon &#8211; surely we should have some focus on what we want to get out of ourselves and the year ahead.\u00a0 Why not hone in on a few resolutions from the onset?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Then I realized that extreme focus on a few items might just lead to failure &#8211; and a more recognizable or definitive failure to boot.\u00a0 When you only pick one or two things to work on (or give up) you&#8217;re only giving yourself one or two chances to succeed.\u00a0 However, when you give yourself a large number of goals to strive for, you&#8217;re providing yourself with more opportunities for success.\u00a0 We all know that one success generally makes up for several failures &#8211; so why not gear yourself up for potential successes rather than set yourself up for failures that stand out?<\/p>\n<p>We go into a new year with more disillusionment than resolve in most cases because we&#8217;re trying to do too much in a short period of time.\u00a0 Sure, you think it&#8217;s going to be a year-long journey, but in the grand scheme of things one year is a short period of time when you&#8217;re talking about goals and habits.\u00a0 If you did a retrospective at the end of last year, you&#8217;re already ahead of the game.\u00a0 Just keep focused on the end result &#8211; and there&#8217;s a lot of aspects of your life that you&#8217;ll want to alter to hit that mark.\u00a0 So go for the changes you know you&#8217;ll need to make to do just that.\u00a0 There&#8217;s a good chance you&#8217;ll miss more than you&#8217;ll hit, but those who are the best at what they do have found success despite failing time and time again.<\/p>\n<p>Swing for the fences; you&#8217;ll hit at least one home run if you give yourself enough chances at the plate.*<\/p>\n<p>*I had written five other sports metaphors before getting it right with this one.\u00a0 I rest my case.<\/p>\n<p><em>Mike Vardy is an accomplished, self-professed productivity and procrastination expert, as well as regular contributor to GTD Times. 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